What’s Your Type?

Answer the questions below in accordance with the way you see yourself through-out your entire life, and not just how you see yourself today. Our love type is most easily identified in our twenties, so if you’re uncertain about how to answer a question, imagine how you would have answered it in your twenties.

Find your type by clicking the statements below which best describe you. The category with the most checkboxes selected indicates your type. When you complete the questionnaire, you will receive an email with personalized information about your results. Please know that this information is completely confidential. If you’d like to find out more about your type and love relationships, please email me at julia@ninewaystolove.com to schedule a private consultation.

Love Type Questionnaire

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Recap––Confirming Your Type

Read the brief descriptions of the nine types below to confirm your Love Type:

THE PERFECTIONIST strives to live life the right way, sees what’s wrong and how to make it better. They evolve into . . .
THE HUMANITARIAN who makes a difference in the world and comes to have complete acceptance and compassion for themselves and others.


THE GIVER is over accommodating and helps others emotionally, is especially drawn to the wounded bird, is out of touch with their need for attention, affection and approval. They evolve into . . .
THE LOVER who has learned to listen to and follow their own heart, focuses on their own life path and purpose, and is grateful for all they receive.

THE ACHIEVER promotes an image of being successful, is driven to get to the top, wants to avoid failure, is efficient, fast paced, overly optimistic, and competitive. They evolve into . . .
THE MANIFESTOR who knows how to use the creative principles of desiring, imagining and focused attention to manifest, is a good team player.

THE ROMANTIC wants deep and meaningful connections, fears abandonment, needs creative expression, feels misunderstood and on the outside, lives in the emotional highs and lows, and is unafraid of the dark side. They evolve into . . .
THE SEEKER who knows they are loved and not flawed, and remembers they never left the creative source.

THE OBSERVER likes the world of information and ideas, creates a feeling of safety by watching and analyzing, is knowledgeable, thoughtful, private and steady. They evolve into . . .
THE SAGE who is wise, has faith that they have plenty of time, energy and knowledge, and trusts their intuitive sense of knowing.

THE QUESTIONER sees the world as an unpredictable and dangerous place, imagines the worst-case scenario, is loyal, sincere, protective and warm.
They evolve into . . .
THE TRUTHSAYER who has found courage through becoming their own authority and speaking the truth from their heart.

THE ENTHUSIAST avoids pain and boredom by escaping into fun, pleasure and imagination, likes to keep their options open, is light hearted, charming, adventurous and spontaneous. They evolve into . . .
THE VISIONARY who uses their creative imagination and entrepreneurial spirit to make difference in the world.

THE BOSS needs to be powerful, strong and in control, is high energy, directive, sometimes intimidating, magnanimous and lives life to the fullest.
They evolve into …
THE WARRIOR who uses their personal power and love to protect, help and empower others.

THE MEDIATOR is easy going, avoids conflict, feels insignificant, sees all sides of a situation, has difficulty making decisions, is empathetic, kind, accepting and supportive. They evolve into . . .
THE UNIFIER who pursues what’s most important to them and knows the truth of the oneness of all beings.

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